Alright, let’s talk about that whole Derek Fisher, Matt Barnes, and Gloria Govan situation. I remember hearing bits and pieces about it back when it happened, so I decided to actually dig into the details myself the other day.

First thing I did was just search their names together. You know, “Derek Fisher Matt Barnes wife”. The name Gloria Govan popped up immediately. Okay, so she was the connection.
It seems the basic story was this: Govan and Barnes were married, had kids, but then split up. Sometime after that, Fisher, who knew Barnes from their time playing in the NBA (even teammates for a bit, I think?), started dating Govan.
The Big Blow-up
Then came the part everyone remembers. Barnes apparently found out Fisher was at Govan’s house in LA. Now, Barnes was way out of town for training camp with his team at the time. The story goes he got super mad, drove a long way back to LA – some reports said like 95 miles, which is nuts – and confronted Fisher at Govan’s place.
Details were messy, as they always are. Some yelling, maybe a physical altercation, depends on who you ask. It wasn’t pretty, that’s for sure.
What Happened After
- NBA Got Involved: The league investigated the whole thing. Barnes ended up getting suspended for a couple of games because of the confrontation.
- Public Drama: Of course, it became huge news. Ex-teammates fighting over an ex-wife? The media ate it up. Lots of back-and-forth comments from both sides over the years.
- Relationship Continued: Despite all that drama, Fisher and Govan stayed together. They actually got married years later, I think in 2021.
- Barnes Moved On?: Barnes has talked about it since, sometimes sounding like he’s moved past it, sometimes still sounding a bit salty. Seems like it took a long time to cool down.
My main takeaway? Man, relationships and breakups are messy enough in private. When you throw in famous athletes, teammates, and the public eye, it just explodes. It was wild reading through the timeline again. Just goes to show how complicated personal lives can get, especially under that kind of spotlight.
